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Sugarbushmaker - 06 Jan, 2022 - 04:26PM

The connection counts, I don't say the f word, it's making love, and you want to make love as if you are utterly and totally in love with the person.

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1480807 - 06 Jan, 2022 - 09:49AM

It all depends on the individuals. Some are slow burners and some have needs there is no one size fits all.
I think what's important is that we should all communicate what we would like and what we don't want before meeting.

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1323413 - 06 Jan, 2022 - 09:14AM

I guess it depends. For me chemistry is everything, if that’s not there then nothing will happen. I couldn’t just have a couple of messages and meet someone (assume sex) and that’s it.

It all depends on the chat and chemistry. I have fucked on the first date a few times. Sounds bad I know but just being honest.

I think as long as the respect and openness there then what’s the issue. Two consenting adults. A similar scenario to if you were on a night out and got on with someone; would you take it further?

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The13thdukeofwybourne - 05 Jan, 2022 - 10:07PM

Was intro'd to a very sexy woman on here via a friend last year. Within 2 days (lots of talking in between) we had a naughty video, we met up the following Monday (5 days later) to check each other out properly. There were kisses. The following day she met me in a hotel and we fucked like bunnies. Sometimes things move fast. Lack of covid restrictions at the time helped.

Paula99 - 05 Jan, 2022 - 06:14PM

For some it's better not to have sex the first time you meet....if he/she likes you then there will be a second date..plus sleeping with lots of people isn't good for your mental health...you will soon notice if there is no chemistry but some are a work in progress or reserved or...just not ready for the hot action 😉
When you kiss him/her its a good indication.

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AndyPandy96 - 05 Jan, 2022 - 05:44PM

Whenever it feels right... I won't deny it hasn't happened quickly on occasions and taken time on others

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Gr33nday - 05 Jan, 2022 - 05:20PM

I went on a meet and was very restrained. We walked and chatted and got on really well. After the meet I drove home and there was a message waiting saying she didn't believe I was that interested as I didn't try it on. Online chat all went a bit downhill from there on and we never met up again. It's a strange world....

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EmnEm123 - 31 Dec, 2021 - 07:16PM

@funfunfun741

Who do you think you're trying to kid?

Goodbye, from everyone!

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jarden - 29 Dec, 2021 - 01:10PM

Hi all I am from Dumfries. Good to see lovely people here. New to this bit nerves hope will be ok

Polycarbonate - 29 Dec, 2021 - 11:54AM

Acting on it can't be expected at the first meet, but there just has to be a sexual connection established. Otherwise its not going to progress.

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