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1463136 - 28 Dec, 2021 - 09:27PM

There is no right or wrong time. You are on an affair site so social constraints have already gone to the wall. If it feels right then go for it. If it doesn’t feel right then don’t. What you have is an ersatz love affair. You will never disappear over the horizon, hand in hand, together forever. Enjoy what you can when you can. Good luck

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1459408 - 28 Dec, 2021 - 02:36PM

Yes I totally agree with the devilish (FullerLipz ) However I tend to go with my penis!!!…my gut can wait to later when I’m feeling hungry for food
As I’m coeliac I can’t eat anything with gluten in it… female flesh doesn’t contain any gluten (thank goodness for that ) so it tastes delicious
Oh dear it looks like my penis needs feeding now where did I put that Christmas pudding (gluten-free of course)
It’s time for me to have an out of body experience 🤮

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1473584 - 26 Dec, 2021 - 06:03PM

If the feeling is right, then go with your gut. No one is here to judge. 😉

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sinverguenzaviejo - 26 Dec, 2021 - 12:57AM

I think it's probably worth waiting until your wedding night......

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1489489 - 18 Dec, 2021 - 08:45PM

Old Sapper, I realised what I'd typed just after pressing enter, haha.

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Old Sapper - 17 Dec, 2021 - 07:29PM

goodoldfashionedloverboy - 17 Dec, 2021 - 07:20PM

"...thinking of dipping my toe again"

Your TOE? Are you sure you're doing it right?

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1489489 - 17 Dec, 2021 - 07:20PM

I met someone on here 3 years ago, we spent a lot of time messaging at first and things were hot enough without even meeting. We agreed to meet for a drink one lunchtime in the summer. Just for context, both ordinary people with good, responsible jobs, but the moment she got out of her car and I walked over to her, it just clicked and we were all over each other, we both felt such an intense connection. We were so desperate for sex we drove out for a bit (very out of character), but nowhere suitable. We soon met again in a more intimate setting and worth the wait. On and off for a couple of years after that. Stopped a year ago, now as you see from my profile, thinking of dipping my toe again

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Handsomeman1974 - 16 Dec, 2021 - 06:15PM

If thats what you are looking for I guess you will find it quick enough
Its not about long it takes to find
More how long it lasts when you get it ;)

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1489085 - 16 Dec, 2021 - 04:02PM

Like others, I have had a few first dates since originally joining IE.
Have I ever been tempted to speed things along on the same day? Yes, several times. Encouraged to do so? Sure. Even challenged? Once.
Have I actually done it? Never. Not a chance.
The stronger the attraction, the deeper the excitement, the closer the connection, the less I want to rush things. Should one sip or gulp down his glass of wine? No right answer. And it changes with the wine.

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1481947 - 14 Dec, 2021 - 05:56PM

As quick as you like .. you can tell within minutes.. seconds even , if the meet is going to end up with some sexy fun. Car sex as an adult is far more fun than it was as a teenager.

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