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Welshdiamond - 09 Oct, 2021 - 01:56PM

After being with some one 31yrs and being on my own 4 I’m struggling to find a Mate who is divorced, or out of a relationship . Can’t bring myself to entertain a married man , but never say never , what do you think of my hopes realistically.

1303117 - 09 Oct, 2021 - 01:09PM

Tbh the struggle is for real on here, you attract someone or find your match and then they get distracted by another and the circle just goes on. It can destroy confidence for a person if you let it get to you

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hazle-eyes - 09 Oct, 2021 - 12:57PM

14 years of rejection by my wife and months of rejection on here I can honestly say no. When my membership runs out I think I will join a gym and use my money to improve my body image and then perhaps someone will like me. For me this journey has been blow after blow so for me it has not got easier. I guess if your eloquent with the written word then this is a great place.

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All Day Breakfast - 09 Oct, 2021 - 12:12PM

I don’t think it gets any harder or easier over time … you’re basically only ever trying to find the people in the overlap of the IE Venn Diagram. A lot of luck involved in this.

I find it extraordinary how many people use their profiles to vent … communicating to the people you don’t want to attract …. at the same time putting off anyone who might be…! 🤷‍♂️

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Peaches1 - 07 Oct, 2021 - 11:05PM

mogordon - 07 Oct, 2021 - 10:09PM
God! I agree! Couple of years ago you chatted for a week then week after you met. Now it's like pulling teeth. Hopefully all the timewasters will be back to their normal lives soon.

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mogordon - 07 Oct, 2021 - 10:09PM

Seem to be an increasing number of time-wasters on here. Used to be way better a couple of years ago. Wonder why?

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1471338 - 07 Oct, 2021 - 06:45PM

For me it's become harder to find your partner in crime every body seems so fussy about every thing or far to direct, or live in London I find it frustrating

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Gallowglass666 - 09 Sep, 2021 - 11:30AM

Peaches1 has it absolutely right, I think (August 28th). Lots and lots of chat, but a distinct disinclination for anything else, despite assertions to the contrary and a quick retreat when the fantasy is challenged.

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1453959 - 04 Sep, 2021 - 12:01AM

Plus, in a rather delicious twist of irony, turns out Chris Hemsworth is 6'3". 😂

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1453959 - 03 Sep, 2021 - 11:59PM

@Sportster1200L

Hilarious. Some people actually write this stuff thinking it will come true! I swear. What the heck is an apex alpha male? One that eats all the other males and has no natural predators of its own? 🤣🤣

P.S. I think I may well have come across that very profile.

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