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TJJ89_fun - 06 Mar, 2024 - 10:05PM

Love the idea that there can be someone outside of your relationship and day to day life that you just enjoy the feeling of excitement, passion and all of the good stuff with no expectation for the boring norm to set in!

One 2 one - 06 Mar, 2024 - 08:02PM

You passed the application process, please contact for an interview xx

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1494077 - 06 Mar, 2024 - 07:39PM

On the rare occasion, we strike gold, and find a lover and soulmate. I was asked if I would have married him had we met in our youth. The truth is probably not, due to societal norms. We kept to what was expected of us. But that meant that by coming together in our affair, we only saw the good in each other, and never had to argue about which in-laws to visit, what colour to paint the kitchen wall and there was always time to have lots of mind blowing sex.

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Thinkingwomanshunk - 06 Mar, 2024 - 07:10PM

When we were teenagers we often confused Lust with Love.
It's only with age and living through responsibilities, do we realise there is such a big difference. Youth is wasted on the young. Just imagine if we had the bodies we had when we met our lifetime partners but with the wisdom we had now.
Not to say I don't appreciate the body of someone my own age.
But I look back with fond memories of those 5/6 times a night sessions (ok they may have only lasted a few mins back then)

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Porto69 - 06 Mar, 2024 - 06:48PM

A ring doesn't make a soulmate.

Paula99 - 06 Mar, 2024 - 04:01PM

There are lots of ladies/men in here that are quite happy with being a mistress/lover …some have had cheating partners in the past and are separated/divorced….
The stress of this especially if you have young children in the midst of the process can put you off getting into a perminant relationship…..do they want all the hard work again when they can borrow someone else’s other half and get under the duvet 😉

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Octavio Paz - 06 Mar, 2024 - 02:14PM

So if married men are attractive, if they get divorced do they suddenly become less attractive.

1654086 - 06 Mar, 2024 - 01:56PM

Makes a lot of sense. I guess you get to be adored and pleasured to your satisfaction, then he goes home and does all the boring ADMIN faff of life with someone else. I totally get this.

marklondonengland - 06 Mar, 2024 - 09:20AM

Asking for comments here implies the expectation that people will find this strange, however I don't think that most people who frequent IE would find this unusual. If you have been married and decided that greater freedom is preferable then who is anyone else to criticse you? The reality is that life might be better for many people if they did not accept bad relationships - many people are stuck in situations where they can't pay rent if they leave a partner they don't want to be with...

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1466140 - 18 Oct, 2021 - 02:18PM

I wish I could meet someone like you! 😘