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MatureWorcsBBW - 04 Jul, 2021 - 06:02PM

I'm massively turned on by the traditionally male work look, smart shirt, trousers and leather shoes.

Jogging pants and trainers would make me want to leave immediately.

Seriously though, once you're at the having sex bit, buy something new to wear once you get there.

But.
As a modern woman, and a naturist also, I'm NOT ever going to make a huge effort to wear stockings, basque, suspenders, high heels etc when most men potentially turn up in tatty old greying boxers.

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1455445 - 10 Jun, 2021 - 12:52PM

Smart casual, want to look the part but at the same time why look slutty going for a coffee?
I'd rather wait until the bedroom for this
Same for the gents, I'd rather them be themselfs on a first date. ( I do understand some need to pretend to go to work)

ClassyLady77 - 03 Jun, 2021 - 06:34PM

Wirelessx. I agree. Now first meet take me as you find me.. I’m always dressed fairly smart, in winters it’s trousers and a low cut top (Always low cut)

Men dress how they want to so they can leave the house.. iF a man expects stocking and skirt first meet, look elsewhere.. 🤷🏼‍♀️

1452057 - 03 Jun, 2021 - 05:38PM

I'd accept whatever (within reason) depending on where they were coming from but would prefer they tell me how they are dressed. My first date I went rocking LBD and my date was.....well. I had to dress down by removing the earrings and changing from evening heels to work shoes. Under dressing is really bad. Over dressing is embarrassing.

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1417380 - 30 May, 2021 - 06:23PM

Hi all. Back here after an 18 month break. Glad to see some familiar faces. 😀

So for dates if pretending to go to work, a dress with buttons or a zip that can be lowered as many inches as needed.

Generally in high heels anyway and bare legs. The feel of a hand on my bare leg under the table - can't beat it 😉

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1308790 - 30 May, 2021 - 04:37PM

Just reading through this as it very much applies to me. I love a lady to make the effort and obviously I try my best too. The one time I came home from my date looking smart, it aroused suspicions.

I wear a uniform at work and tend to be very casual around the house, so I keep good shoes, a nice shirt and a couple of changes of my top link underwear in the car. It really is that simple!

A long time relationship I had from IE, which ended during the lockdown, my then lady used to get changed in the car while I was driving, which was actually quite erotic and a bit of a giggle, or she would tell me to follow her up to our room. A couple of times we went lingerie shopping together. In a neutral town, of course. We always managed to make it spicy, it worked for us.

For me, it's about making the best of the situations and circumstances we find ourselves.

Daremeister - 27 May, 2021 - 04:19PM

If it helps two of the most highly charged dates I have had were with women whom I met straight from work and who were unable to change into anything they thought was 'suitable'.

One, once the date was going well, unfastened an extra button on her blouse as she sipped her gin. This signalled her interest and certainly revved mine. The other allowed her fairly long office skirt to shorten imperceptibly but dramatically over the course of an evening's dinner at an inn. The latter in particular gave me one of the sexiest, most throat tightening memories I have.

It is fabulous to dress up for somebody, and to know somebody has taken the trouble to dress for you. But consideration, imagination and chemistry are far more important. Nobody should worry too much if circumstances dictate against dipping into the back of the wardrobe. What you are is what matters.

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1383025 - 26 May, 2021 - 06:59PM

I’ve changed in my car more times than I care to remember!

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1449137 - 25 May, 2021 - 01:27PM

Being from the planet Kynion, i am very used to concealing my intentions. I now have a collection of human skins that i can choose from. I noticed the human female from this site tend to be attracted to my current form so i will remain in this until i find the perfect mate.

To help with my assimilation, i have a "wife" has been reprogrammed using advanced neurotech to make her oblivious.

Unfortunately i can't 'blow the game back home', my planet was sadly destroyed by space pirates known as which is why i came to Earth, to repopulate my kind, i am the last hope.

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1422816 - 23 May, 2021 - 01:20PM

I always like to wear a dress, which is what I do for work anyway. So no suspicion there, spare makeup I keep in the car. Sneak some knickers (sexy) ones in the bag if I’m meeting at a hotel. Otherwise. Take me as I am. Clean, presentable and smelling lovely. Xx

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