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1632113 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 07:18PM

“There are so many ways of killing a cat” and being blunt by saying, you not my type isn’t one of them.
“I appreciate your interest in my profile but can’t say the same with yours, wishing you all the best”, could be one of them.
Let’s be mature whiles we trying to enhance our lives 😊

Paula99 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 06:30PM

It seems Quasimodo has a regular post in here ..I wonder where that came from 😂😂😂

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ExoticOrchid - 19 Dec, 2023 - 05:03PM

There really is no need to be so blunt and say "you're not attractive" ... I would never say that to anyone, not even to Quasimodo!

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1639599 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 02:08PM

@Eliza Boo
I really like your comment and agree to ghost is unpleasant

1447655 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 01:16PM

There's cowardly ways - ghosting, and mean ways "you aren't attractive" and there's decent ways "I just don't get the feeling I'm looking for from your pictures" and I think that's honest and fair.

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Sandypops - 19 Dec, 2023 - 01:02PM

For me there has to be 'something' I find attractive. That could be anything tbf. But a smile is a great place to start.
Great chat, a sense of humour and banter can make me more attracted to someone. But sadly, if there no attraction there whatsoever, a polite ' you look lovely but not what I'm looking for' is my usual go to.
It's expensive to be here for you men so there's no point me wasting your time - I'm guessing none of us want just a pen friend.

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1632896 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 12:59PM

I know a good looking fella when I see one, the bwa greying type, close shaved etc💪😛😎…and some of us aren’t as blessed, so you should have gotten use to that fact after 40/50 years of seeing the same face in the mirror everyday.😆 I’m up front about it so you can get your deep breaths and neck rolls in beforehand😛..but there’s usually other qualities to balance it out….unless you really are unlucky)!! In which case….

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1575033 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 12:22PM

Just say thanks but no thanks not my type, simples

marklondonengland - 19 Dec, 2023 - 11:45AM

Perhaps it is too blunt to just directly say 'I don't think you are very attractive', but it's easy to let someone down just by saying 'You have a great profile and sound interesting, but I just don't think you are exactly what I'm looking for - good luck out there!' I don't think it is a big deal really - everyone should expect that they will need to invest some time to find someone who is both attractive and interesting...

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1639107 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 10:52AM

new to this,and new to this site...id rather have a polite no,then at least i no either way,and that the other profile is not a fake one..!!! also if you dont read the profile in depth then why even bother trying to make contact...

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