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1429015 - 14 Feb, 2021 - 10:18AM

Well you were nice to me Mary unfortunately I’m also too far away x

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1434661 - 14 Feb, 2021 - 09:41AM

I've learned that there are a lot of liars, fantasists and cold feet and there are also a lot of misogynistic self-inflated bitter ar$eholes (who I am not surprised that their wives won't have sex with them if this is their approach at wooing).

There are also so many lovely gents who receive such horrible treatment from women just because they don't spell very well, or are not good at taking photos of themselves so they miss out (Or women are missing out).

I learned to hone my bull$hit detector but also to keep a fairly open mind. Be patient and polite and respond to all, even if it's just to say they're too far away and to thank them for their message x

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From Here We Go Sublime - 04 Feb, 2021 - 07:20PM

Disappointingly, that most people here don't respond to a politely worded introductory message!

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1421067 - 04 Feb, 2021 - 02:18PM

So one of the most important things I have learned on here is to treat everybody with respect and to be polite, especially if they are not for me.

A polite "I am sorry but good luck here" never hurts.

Silence and not replying, or doing a runner is not an answer.

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1421067 - 04 Feb, 2021 - 11:11AM

Lol to myself this morning. A polite message sent out, a reply "No thank you you are not me". My reply Thank you good luck. But blocked. Not precious but people don't realise how rude they can be ...

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1421067 - 02 Feb, 2021 - 09:30PM

Not to be precious. Some people will block you because they don't like your photograph. Others are a complete delight and surprise. So be open minded, taking the rough with the smooth.

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1433297 - 02 Feb, 2021 - 06:30PM

Only been here for a few days but I've learnt I'm a fussy bugger who I'll contact and talk to.
I'm still making my mind up whether this is the right place for me to find a friend without the emotional torture associated with a controlling partner. A great friend first who just happens to enjoy some physical fun too.

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1067672 - 01 Feb, 2021 - 01:32PM

What have I learned about myself? At the risk of sounding pathetic, I have learned that I am far more attractive that I realised. A pleasant surprise really 😊. I have also learned that emotional content is key. Without it sex is an empty experience, exciting in principal but barren in practise.

What have I learned about others? Judging from reading ladies’ profiles, many men clearly don’t put in the effort. Not just the dire one-liners you ladies receive, but the need to state that a guy be clean and smell good! Oh my God you poor people, I shudder to think what you have been subjected to!

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1341862 - 31 Jan, 2021 - 07:56PM

@RealAffair....

Just speaking from many years experience on this site. Yes been burned a few times but the good always outweigh the bad! I've now learnt to trust my instincts which haven't let me down as yet.

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RealAffair - 30 Jan, 2021 - 11:26PM

Cindylou60 - 29 Jan, 2021 - 08:14PM

"That men are very similar really. You think the grass is greener on the other side and it's...just a slightly different shade but still has patchy bits that the sun hasn't got to."

Surely if you find a bit of grass that's green enough for you, why would you keep looking? And nothing is perfect, so it's never completely the right shade 😂

Then again, all the marrieds are here because their existing patch of grass has lost it's colour somehow 😃