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1386735 - 28 Feb, 2021 - 02:29PM

GemStone2020 - 20 Jan, 2021 - 02:00PM

I met someone from here last June. We fell in love & I left my husband & family to move in with him in October but it wasn't working. It turned out his dogs were far more important than me, so after 5 weeks I returned home with my tail between my legs

I’m sorry to hear this but it also made me laugh, there must be something in the air about dogs being higher up the pecking order.

I hope you recovered and have moved onto better things

1436596 - 28 Feb, 2021 - 01:19PM

I got chatting to someone last year, wouldn't say he was my type but nice so we agreed to meet up. Had a nice lunch and had some interesting conversations and I found him very intriguing. There was something about him but never really knew what. Anyway initially I didn't get that sparks flying kind of feeling but we walked back to his car and chatted some more, then we kissed........OMG if I could describe the perfect kiss, that was it, right there!

As times gone on I kind of feel drawn in by him. He's like Christian Grey without the helicopter and flash! Ladies, some Fifty Shades fans will get this!

Not sure if I'm been led down the garden path by a complete fantasist but it's all very exciting and there is just something about him. I'm keeping my options open for now as I'm very much a realist.

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1329251 - 28 Feb, 2021 - 12:08PM

I think we should be open to change. People surprise me, sometimes negatively, sometimes nicely. What I do know is that if you talk to them long enough you get to see their personality traits, and that helps me tenfold xx

1386735 - 28 Feb, 2021 - 10:36AM

Once upon a time ago, I met someone here. Totally different to the type of guy I normally go for. I have to say we did have a great connection in more ways than one, and I will have fond memories of our time. Shame really, as his life got in the way.
One thing I would say to anyone contemplating an affair and yes I know I should be posting this on the other thread, but remember you really are just the bit on the side, nothing more. Wife, kids, pets will be higher up the pecking order than you, which is how it should be, but when you’re in that moment when it’s just you and him, it makes it all the harder.
You need to be one tough cookie to live this world. Sorry going off piste now.

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The Milk Tray man - 27 Feb, 2021 - 11:30PM

When I came on here first it was so frustrating. False profiles, messers, leaders on etc etc. But after a few goes I met the most amazing woman from North West Ulster. I live in Dublin and the distance was a challenge but we were both willing to make it work. We adored each other and had the most amazing friendship for 2 years.
So be patient, block the messers and I had no preconceptions about looks or body or blonde etc.
I would take the woman as I found her for what she is. Be respectful of each other and have loads of fun.

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Cool and Collected - 16 Feb, 2021 - 06:49PM

I had in mind, slim and slender. I met someone who was not but who was absolutely wonderful and totally on the same wavelength. I was reminded that whomever I have dated through my life, it is who a person is and not why they look like that is important.

1433650 - 27 Jan, 2021 - 11:32PM

@Fazal 45 , i would not lose hope. The perfect IE can appear at an unexpected moment. Whilst people do naturally have their preferences , i’ve never held that against anyone , even if I don’t agree.

so your comment that you think it’s because of type , and ethnicity that you’ve had no luck is a little unfair . I’ve had a successful affair with a wonderful woman for 3 years after meeting here on IE , and i’m an Asian guy.

Patience is a virtue after all

1431709 - 26 Jan, 2021 - 12:04AM

Hey how everyone.

dm1969 - 25 Jan, 2021 - 11:44PM

I had 5 year amazing affair via IE with a fabulous lady, totally blew me away. That sadly ended 5 years ago and I still think of her all the time.

Often I wonder if it will happen again, I guess you have to in it to win it as they say. But I think that for anything really meaningful you have to have a huge amount of luck to meet that person too. Most on IE I have found judge simply on a photo yet whilst appearances count people are so much more than that.

RealAffair - 25 Jan, 2021 - 08:54PM

GemStone2020 - 20 Jan, 2021 - 02:00PM

I'm sorry to hear it didn't work out 😟. Although it sounds like you didn't follow Sportster's advice re testing thoroughly enough.

How is it at home with your tail between your legs?

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