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1426763 - 21 Dec, 2020 - 06:50PM

I think that having got onto the site you probably want to give it a go. Meet a few times, chat, make sure both of you know each others rules.
As once happened to me, someone wanted to go too far even though I had been as clear and honest as possibly. I think that caused some pain.

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ExoticOrchid - 19 Dec, 2020 - 11:55AM

Lots of men on IE certainly are very into "iffing and umming" ... no cajones!

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Teresa di Vicenzo - 18 Dec, 2020 - 10:09PM

You’re ‘iffing and umming’ about going further (by that I assume you mean you want to have sex) with the secret relationship you’ve already started with someone you’ve met online on a cheating site. If your partner was to discover right now what you’ve done up to now, I’m not sure the technicality of you not having had sex will matter too much; they’ll still feel betrayed and cheated on. If your partner doesn’t know what you’re up to, then in my opinion, you’re basically already cheating.
If however you’re not sure you do actually want to take that step into a sexual relationship with your IE, I suggest you bale out now. To keep ‘iffing and umming’ is hardly fair on your IE.
Full on sexual cheating isn’t for everyone. If it feels wrong, don’t do it.

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Kris4177 - 18 Dec, 2020 - 08:47PM

im feeling the urge to see someone new but my life at home is amazing with my partner. something is missing. hot passion n wild sex is definitely missing also the butterflies are.

ClassyLady77 - 18 Dec, 2020 - 08:37PM

IF your having doubts then they’re not right for you... I remember the first bloke I cheated with. As soon as I met him we had a instant chemistry and the doubts disappeared..

Thats what I’m looking for again.. Time will tell..

I find you can’t tell chemistry online that come from meeting someone for coffee/drinks.. Hence why I never do anything first meet... 🤷🏼‍♀️

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1426072 - 18 Dec, 2020 - 08:35PM

It is very easy. Think about why are you here, in the first place. If things are really miserable at home, why not trying to be happy? The only thing we need to remember, is not to build our happiness on someone else's unhappiness. Make sure you are cautious. Nobody will complain at home about your glowing and good mood 😉

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EmnEm123 - 18 Dec, 2020 - 08:03PM

You should have had a long hard think about this before joining this site.

Bore off.

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1409145 - 18 Dec, 2020 - 12:22PM

Speaking from previous experience. If you find the right person on IE just go for it. An affair can be an amazing g experience.

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thirdkind - 23 Nov, 2020 - 04:41PM

Yeah go for it, refresh those parts that spouses can’t (or won’t) reach x

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1422763 - 23 Nov, 2020 - 12:28PM

Go for it have some fun life’s far too short