Let one's hair down
Full disclosure: I am genuinely a much happier person to be around since having an affair. I've laughed harder, and been more playful then I have in the last decade. Thanks IE for helping me let my hair down.
Can anyone relate?
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1511433 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 10:46PM
Absolutely feel more confident and like my old self. Flirting is good for the soul I've decided xx
Doricles - 03 Apr, 2022 - 09:35PM
@ExocticOrchid
Sadly, whilst you and I understand the physics of “cause and effect”, I’m not so sure that others do, and so based on your premise, I think there’s quite a few IE members who are in need of a good talking to and a hard mental slap!
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1510079 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 01:11PM
I think it helps a lot and helps avoid picking fights at home too
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ExoticOrchid - 03 Apr, 2022 - 01:09PM
Doricles - 03 Apr, 2022 - 11:02AM
Good point.
However, if anyone here doesn't already know/realise all this, they need a good talking to with themselves as well as a good, hard mental slap!!!
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1488125 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 12:53PM
@boredhousewife.
The cucumber lady had different goals to myself. If you are not clear with each other from the offset, then it goes pear shaped.
There has to be absolute agreement to how the relationship should work.
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1488125 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 12:50PM
@boredhousewife.
I would reckon that we all have had weird shit. What I shared about that lovely person - she was not to blame.
We should bear in mind that a lot is at stake.
And no my experiences pale in comparison to many others.
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1494077 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 12:34PM
@CIL1973
Seems like you have had rather eventful liaisons - from the cucumber lady to this one that you now describe! 😉
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1488125 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 11:17AM
@Doricles, seen this first hand when a woman I met here, met a previous affair’s very angry spouse - well not in person, but texts, letters in the post, trying to make her life a misery.
She broke it off with me. We had chatted for a while, met once and then this all blew up. I really liked this woman.
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1488125 - 03 Apr, 2022 - 11:10AM
@Doricles
Very good point.
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