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Trwela - 06 Oct, 2020 - 07:53AM

Everyone has at least one trusted friend.

It would be wrong to bring someone in to provide cover, you are doing this so own the decission and take the consequences if it all goes wrong whether good or bad. Ultimately you have already decided what you would do and that's why you are here.

Your close friend is good for knowing where you are in case of danger or emergency.

Don't bring your friend into your affair as it could cause problems for them.

1395109 - 06 Oct, 2020 - 12:03AM

I wouldn’t trust a friend with this, it would wreck the friendship. Work thing?

lylowils - 05 Oct, 2020 - 10:06PM

This is not something I’d ever tell my friends about!

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Ade.mac2017 - 23 Sep, 2020 - 04:43PM

Take up a hobby which gets you out of the house for a long time.

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1388047 - 10 Sep, 2020 - 04:27PM

I wouldn't trust anyone with this secret although I wish I did have someone for an alibi and also to so someone knew where I was should anything go wrong

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Something_oblique - 10 Sep, 2020 - 03:04PM

Ok I've read these messages.
Listen I own my "affair". I know it could go wrong and I know my husband could find out. If he does then maybe it's best that we are honest. But my friends understand and I'd never ask them to lie to him if he asks I've told her to be honest. However I always text her where I am and reg of his car. Never never put yourself at risk.

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yodah - 08 Sep, 2020 - 10:38AM

You're your most loyal buddy!

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Dejavous - 05 Sep, 2020 - 07:28PM

Your alibi needs to be between you, yourself and nobody else. Once you involve someone else your secret is not a secret anymore.

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ExoticOrchid - 05 Sep, 2020 - 04:22PM

Cherry_X - 05 Sep, 2020 - 03:38PM
"what if your date turns out to be dangerous?"

There is a risk in everything I suppose ... first of all you will always, always meet in a public place and preferably in the day time ... secondly you need to trust your instinct ... thirdly, leave all the details you have of the person you are meeting at home or at your place of work if there is no one you can tell ... should anything horrific happen, at least there will be some sort of clue to that person!

We are talking worst case scenario of course.

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Cherry_X - 05 Sep, 2020 - 03:38PM

Just thinking... if you can't tell anyone, what if your date turns out to be dangerous?
I'm single so thankfully no need of alibi but I do tell a friend where I'm going for safety or so my horrific death can be avenged if necessary.

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