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Cardinal Rule

What is the top most cardinal rule in an affair? I think it's: Communication.

Transparency between partners guarantees a safe and happy affair. 

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AAGilfan - 28 Nov, 2023 - 06:47PM

And there was me thinking the cardinal rule was: Don't turn up in a scarlet biretta and scarlet mozzetta as your date will think you have taken a vow of celibacy.......

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1529050 - 28 Nov, 2023 - 09:47AM

Enigma.. - 28 Nov, 2023 - 06:56AM
Agree - if someone mucks me around on a first or second meet (before we took things further) I would absolutely know they are not serious about an affair.

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ExoticOrchid - 28 Nov, 2023 - 08:57AM

Enigma.. - 06:56AM

That is very true!


Enigma.. - 28 Nov, 2023 - 06:56AM

Top rule….

To an actually want to have an affair in the first place and the availability to meet up.

To many males back out of meeting up or don’t have the time or availability to actually meet up 🙄😒🤷🏼‍♀️

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Andrea Andrew - 25 Nov, 2023 - 09:33PM

Its also being happy and having fun!


1625622 - 25 Nov, 2023 - 08:16PM

I would choose respect. Clearly you have to communicate - why go to bed with someone you can't speak with before during and after...

But for me, respect. For boundaries. For limits

A connection has to be built on trust...and that comes from knowing your lover. What is spoken and what remains unsaid

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Purple dreamer - 24 Nov, 2023 - 12:02PM

Communication I feel is the key to most things in life


1447655 - 24 Nov, 2023 - 10:55AM

The first rule of Fight Club is: you do not talk about Fight Club. The second rule of Fight Club is: you DO NOT talk about Fight Club! Third rule of Fight Club: if someone yells “stop!”, goes limp, or taps out, the fight is over. Fourth rule: only two guys to a fight. Fifth rule: one fight at a time, fellas. Sixth rule: the fights are bare knuckle. No shirt, no shoes, no weapons. Seventh rule: fights will go on as long as they have to. And the eighth and final rule: if this is your first time at Fight Club, you have to fight.

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Life is a beach - 23 Nov, 2023 - 10:46PM

Cardinal rules with your IE: Communicate, be honest, treat them with respect and care, make each other feel good, appreciate each others time. Protect them and protect yourselves from being caught and very importantly, have a lot of fun!

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Paula99 - 23 Nov, 2023 - 09:58PM

You have to have some kind of manual/stratagy in whatever you do or nothing ever works properly..

For those in here that have been tarred with difficult/weird relationships then caution is good..I do find people tend to go into these situations in the wrong headspace…

Rules are made to be broken but you only know the real ins and outs when you have played the game 😉

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