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1328828 - 28 May, 2020 - 12:24PM

topcat_tacpot - 28 May, 2020 - 11:51AM

Speaking personally, I like to see a full face picture, possibly a naked chest being the most ‘private’. Any more private I find to be an instant turn off. I prefer to have the pleasure of unwrapping a surprise in person!

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Chezley - 28 May, 2020 - 11:55AM

Well who can produce a decent photo in these conditions?

Men have turned into the sasquatch.

Women are embracing 'going grey'., and looking more like cruella de Ville each day.

I believe my local nail bar has been taking in illicit customers, at the back door, for vaginal waxing, throughout the crisis.

Ie folk have turned to the pen, as their hooking skill.

Did someone say something yawningly meaningful about sapiosexuals?

Well i suppose every dog had its day.....

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topcat_tacpot - 28 May, 2020 - 11:51AM

Hi. New to this, so glad I saw the topic of private photos. This might sound dumb but what sort of photos would a woman expect to be confronted with when clicking the private photos button? And the other way round? How far do ppl normally go? I'm male BTW.

tea_coffee_me_ - 28 May, 2020 - 11:45AM

"RoamingTez -- 11:18AM / @Happyheart77 - 9.08am

If you're in a relationship and don't want any more prospective IEs sending messages - update your profile accordingly.
If you need to drop the chat for a bit as life sometimes gets in the way - say that."

We are not allowed, coming up to one Christmas I tried to change my profile to say that, update refused. Discovered I did not need to, as most years it goes quiet then anyway.

Yes I have chatted wonderfully with men, passed password and then told no thanks (if lucky)
Declined as photo showed I was not blond, another because my hair is tied up!!

TOO many photo collectors.

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1371942 - 28 May, 2020 - 11:41AM

I think it is really nice to have a conversation, flirt a bit and leave the rest to the imagination. It's much more exciting to imagine who you flirting with in a difficult time.

Photos are always really difficult to get a real sense of a person.

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There and back - 28 May, 2020 - 11:36AM

I agree........what makes me laugh is that there are profiles here that say such things as "I don't have a type" and "I will respond, even if it is to say thanks but no thanks".

Now on the I don't have a type - Oh they do as they then state in a follow up ....You're not my type, good luck :-)
And on the I will respond.....oh dear another negative.....they don't either lol........

I know we are all in lockdown, but please be honest about whether you do or don't ......just as well I have a great sense of humour and understand there are all types here........ego boosters, chatters, daydreamers, but please please......

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1363423 - 28 May, 2020 - 11:18AM

@Happyheart77 - 9.08am

Exactly right. Either no response or a couple of messages back and forth then ghost. I also understand that some profiles are still on here even after the membership has run out so members cannot reply.

My simple requests are as follows:

If I'm not your type - say so. I understand that there needs to be an attraction.

If you're in a relationship and don't want any more prospective IEs sending messages - update your profile accordingly.

If you need to drop the chat for a bit as life sometimes gets in the way - say that.

Don't ghost - it's plain rude.

These are not hard and makes for a slightly nicer experience.

Rant over - happy lockdown!!!

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tender_rock - 28 May, 2020 - 10:56AM

Still is the case. Either the very first message or within 5 messages the password has been asked and most of the time without even a courteous reply.

We have more time in our hands to know a person but still the shallowness precedes.

"My conscience is clean — I have never used it."

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1386735 - 28 May, 2020 - 10:42AM

Hmm am I on a different website to those that have commented so far? Views welcomed

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1334304 - 28 May, 2020 - 10:14AM

I’ve noticed guys seem to be a little more coy in sharing and are more chatty..... although I’m still in the same mindset that - as superficial as it may sound, there needs to be that initial physical attraction for things to progress for me.
I always reply when I say that they aren’t my type out of being courteous to the guy’s time and feelings....😇

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