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1374627 - 29 May, 2020 - 04:24PM

When I read the information on joining it stressed that it wasn’t the done thing to ask for a photo straight away. I have found that once you have got to know someone they will either offer you their password or at least ask for yours. I have not yet been disappointed when I have received a girl photos. ( not sure I can say the same for them when they have seen mine)

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Bugwithone - 29 May, 2020 - 12:13AM

I was told it was impolite! So I don’t ask! But it’s bloody hard, as it would be really nice to see who I am chatting with! Strangely the women, that have offered, are the two I now enjoy messaging the most! I just feel closer to them now I can see them!

To the men on here, don’t show any flesh until asked! I had only one with my bum on show (tastefully done in black and white) and practically in the same pose as one of this sites generic avatars for the women and she blocked me!

I really didn't think women on this site would be sensitive by a bit of rump steak! :-) Sorry... I have removed it!

Personally I think a bit of personal teasing, especially with humour is great! I thought the object of the exercise is to attract each other! It will make that first meeting less tense, that’s for sure!

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1385524 - 28 May, 2020 - 10:56PM

I've not been on here for long, it's friendly, more than I expected. It's nice to have a chat first, then when it get's to the point of sharing pics - even if there is no electrcity, we keep chatting. That's what's about right?

MatureWorcsBBW - 28 May, 2020 - 09:33PM

I get asked for my photo password and I ask for it from other people. I'm got no idea if it's too soon or not but it's rarely a photo that puts me off. Although a recent holiday photo of someone in a sweaty summer vest on holiday definitely did put me off. For me, sweaty summer vests belong only in the gym and not out in public. Even when on holiday. Yuck.

I'm less interested in finding someone conventionally handsome or attractive but more interested in if they have a kind face. And also if they have a kind attitude to me and other people.

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1365199 - 28 May, 2020 - 07:21PM

Is it a good thing that there is less demand for photos early on in communications?

Personally I have never placed too much importance on pics on here as, in a lot of cases, they are seriously out of date. Mr 60 something looking more like Mr 20 something or the reverse when you actually meet. Plus the element of surprise I find fun.

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1382700 - 28 May, 2020 - 06:23PM

Curvaceous? That’s a word that covers a multiple of body shapes

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tea_coffee_me_ - 28 May, 2020 - 06:16PM

I always recommend people have a full length photo also.

Yes some people it is the face, others it is body shape. A photo does not always give the body shape.
Some prefer slimmer, others curvaceous ... again just a way to limit wasted time and disappointment of a first meeting.

Personally I would prefer the no thank you as early as possible, I am a busy person and there are enough false starts as it is...

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1361203 - 28 May, 2020 - 05:51PM

I absolutely detest a first message which finishes with "please can I have your picture password?" Usually followed with "I know it might seem shallow but appearance matters to me". Then I look at the age of the person and they are under the age that I said I wanted.

They get a polite but extremely firm reply from me about the importance of actually reading my profile, since I believe in the importance of post coital conversation.

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Drew196 - 28 May, 2020 - 05:09PM

I think a face pic is important as, although I may be shallow, at the end of the day looks do play a major part in attraction. I have a great personality but my face may well put the ladies off.

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Mews0001 - 28 May, 2020 - 04:27PM

On this site I think having photos of genitals (cock and pussy!) is unnecessary and probably unwanted. There are plenty of other sites where there is plenty of that on display, and more!

For me, the private pics are exactly that. Photos of me that I don't want on public display, but am happy to share if asked for by someone I have chatted with.

They aren't explicit and have no need to be. We can always switch to Kik or WhatsApp for those.

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