Is one IE enough?
How many on here have actually been completely monogamous with their IE?
How many have cheated (if that's a thing) on their IE with another (or multiple) IE?
Were you honest with your IE?
And how many still have any sort of sexual relationship with their spouse?
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1338297 - 23 May, 2020 - 08:58PM
Always had an exclusive affair. For a start I’m too busy. I don’t have the time for multiple partners.
Personally I feel this is safer. Nobody wants to get caught or messed about.
The flirty banter in between meets. The build up. The planning. Could only do this with one guy!
I also take this very seriously. I’m not out to hurt anyone. It should be fun. A friend with benefit and sex gets better with time.
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Chelseaguy12 - 23 May, 2020 - 06:38PM
Fucking for the sake of it isnt big or clever
Might be some deeper rooted problem
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gemini2310 - 23 May, 2020 - 06:38PM
Who knows when an IE is cheating on there IE they can tell each other what they want to hear and at the end of the day they can do what they want there not even ours only for a short time when both can meet I like all exclusive but that's just me each to there own I say
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MatureWorcsBBW - 23 May, 2020 - 05:48PM
Well, I'm certainly not going to turn down sex with my partner. But I won't be shouting it from the rooftops for everyone to know, except to you lovely people. Hope you can keep it a secret. 😉😂
I've got absolutely no intention of promising to only meet one gentleman for intimacy especially if it's only possible to meet that person three times a year.
To me, it's pointless to say that you can cheat on your IE. You're not in a traditional committed relationship. I don't understand why you would expect fidelity. But I understand why you might like the idea of it, one man, only needing to be with you. The reality is usually very different, I think.
No man on here has asked me to be faithful to him. I couldn't promise that I would be. And if I did, how easy would it be to break that promise and he would never know.
Sometimes I think that the less we know, the less we worry about.
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1386735 - 23 May, 2020 - 03:57PM
Zyphod most men are interested in an elaborate wank
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Songbird478 - 23 May, 2020 - 03:47PM
tea_coffee_me_ - 23 May, 2020 - 02:59PM
Some great insight there thank you. Much appreciated as it’s an issue I grapple with in my head!
1100888 - 23 May, 2020 - 03:35PM
It depends if to your IE is only for sexual gratification as Ben Elton once put it. An elaborate wank.
Or are you in it for a relationship.
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Dancing In The Rain - 23 May, 2020 - 03:27PM
Always been honest with my IE, and never "cheated" on her either because, for me, having an emotional and physical relationship with one person is all I want.. sadly it's not with my wife.
Would I mind if she did? I think as long as I was her focus for the time we're together I'm ok. Who am I to clip the wings of a phoenix . But stay safe always.
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