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Bacchus111 - 25 Sep, 2024 - 03:46PM

I've long come to accept that women are a more cleaver and certainly more sneaky than men. That's why trying to disguise an IE conversation as a work call is asking for trouble. I have a dedicated 'naughty' phone which is always switched off when at home. That way even if my IE does a pocket dial by mistake there's no footprint on my normal phone.

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Paula99 - 10 Sep, 2024 - 06:41PM

I would never meet a guy unless I have spoken to him on the phone once or twice …
You get a real vibe from a phone conversation..👍

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AsianGent1986 - 10 Sep, 2024 - 06:26PM

Finding an excuse is someone trying to add the thrill of getting caught to escapade.

I don’t find excuses. I simply call, as and when I can or at times which are risk free. I prefer the conversations themselves to present the thrill, not the risk of f’ing up multiple lives.

Enigma.. - 02 Sep, 2024 - 10:38AM

I would never dream of meeting up with someone without having had at least one or two “safe” phone calls.

You can tell a lot about someone through having a phone conversation or two 🙂🫤.

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boav91 - 02 Sep, 2024 - 09:40AM

There are two times I tend to call my ie between meets

One is on the drive home and I am on my own as is she or when partners are sound asleep late at night on occasion and only when absolutely safe. At weekends we are fortunate to be night owls and both partners are early to bed. Any risks stick to text

Don’t get put in a situation to need an excuse is rule of thumb for us

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Emerald Dream - 31 Aug, 2024 - 12:42AM

Unless it was an emergency I can’t think why you would need to do this and use an excuse like work . If you are discreet and avoid trouble you save phone calls until safe and appropriate times when no one needs to know anything . If you pretend it’s work the conversation would have to be limited anyway .

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EmnEm123 - 30 Aug, 2024 - 07:26PM

CalmBee24

That's what the search engine is for, try that!

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CalmBee24 - 30 Aug, 2024 - 05:24PM

Where are the older men??? Like 60+????

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marklondonengland - 30 Aug, 2024 - 03:00PM

Some of these questions and discussions here are very odd. Who would actually call and chat to their IE when it is not safe to do so? We are no longer in the era of using a phone attached to the wall in the hallway. Things such as WhatsApp and Telegram do exist...

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1671533 - 30 Aug, 2024 - 02:31PM

I don't have an IE just yet, but yes, sounds like a good excuse. But what about the excuses for f2f meetings though...obviously a bit more tricky?!

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