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ExoticOrchid - 14 Nov, 2023 - 02:51PM

L&E - 02:37PM

I know it's not easy but remember that person isn't worth your time ... his loss.

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1587522 - 14 Nov, 2023 - 02:37PM

Florence1945 - 14 Nov, 2023 - 02:28PM


Lovely post!
And yes its hard sometimes, I'm still a bit on the floor after something quite bad that happened last week, and its really hurt me if I'm honest.. Very much so...

But your post is lovely and a good reminder that I need to move past it..... x

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1598629 - 14 Nov, 2023 - 02:28PM

Well hello everyone, Reading through all the comments clearly some common themes developing.
Firstly can I say you are worthy of being looked after and respected be it a man or women on this site, you will always get players on here, believe me I have seen a few on here.
I know for many self esteem is on the floor don't believe you need to see someone to make you feel beautiful you already are.
Many a person on here older members or new go with your gut instinct and ask the difficult questions.
When you hitthe jackpot, and yes I have a couple of times on here it's so worth the effort.

So chin up people your right naughty person is there for you but remember be respectful and a politeness thank you goes a long way x

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1494077 - 12 Nov, 2023 - 08:51AM

Life is a beach - 12 Nov, 2023 - 01:14AM

Success stories do make warm reading 🥰
Hope it goes well and that you get to have many wonderful times together!

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1616803 - 12 Nov, 2023 - 07:57AM

Been blocked twice in the last few days and not said anything offensive/untoward. Is this considered normal behaviour?
The last message I got back yesterday was” Catch you tomorrow have fun x” and now I’m blocked. Quite distressing after the effort it takes to make what I thought was a connection on here.
Oh well, I can vent that anywhere else 🤣
Thanks for listening x

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Life is a beach - 12 Nov, 2023 - 01:14AM

All, don't despair!
I have only been here since end of June.
I have been reading your comments. I talked and met someone in public. Selfish person who didn't care about me having to plan things. Sufficient to say second meeting didn't happen.
I had started talking to someone and had told him I was kind of taken...
Well, you never guess what, this beautiful person whom I had told I was taken came back available.
He is much more than I ever expected. He makes me feel special and I am so glad I joined this site.

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ExoticOrchid - 11 Nov, 2023 - 01:42PM

ExoticOrchid - 29 Apr, 2020 - 04:16PM

Absolutely ... that's what we are here for after all. 😉

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1614937 - 11 Nov, 2023 - 12:43PM

I agree with the first part of Boav91's post. Being ignored over and over again and, when I finally got chatting and shared my pictures, being blocked instantly. Less desirable..? IE has made me feel more like The Hunchback of Notre Dame or The Beast without Beauty. I came here to find appreciation and share affection - I guess I must have picked the wrong time of year!

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Paula99 - 11 Nov, 2023 - 10:19AM

IE didnt make me feel more desirable…it made me think about changes in my life … job mainly and the loss of my father..also my health..🏃‍♀️
IE has been the saviour in my circumstances and my kids have 2 parents in one house …magic combination for me ..👍

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boav91 - 11 Nov, 2023 - 10:05AM

Initially being on here made me feel less desirable. How come so many rejections and no interest, but then it changed when I actually met someone who we both clicked. It is now mutual desire and we both love chatting, meeting and it led to the lack of desire that had established in 20+ years of being married and becoming more companions to rekindle the desire both of us wanted. For the firrt time in a long time it made me content to not have to look wider too which is really nice

Agree with the comments that it should be here about meeting the one not notches on bedposts. There are other sites you can do that on apparently.

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