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JeanCarlo - 16 Nov, 2024 - 11:56AM

absolutely!!!
it make you realise you are a beautiful person again.
of course, i need to keep my ego on check, but it is such a powerful affirmation that prevents darks thoughts festering in your mind.
even if nothing came to realisations. Just the fact there are a beautiful woman, somewhere, that found you special and you reciprocate, is a major life significant.

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Spicy Asian - 16 Nov, 2024 - 08:58AM

yes definitely. I want to feel desirable, and I want attention, and to feel sexy - It's nice when a guy makes you feel all that.

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Paula99 - 16 Nov, 2024 - 08:46AM

Your lover should enhance your life and make your home life more fulfilling….if your affair is not coming up to the mark …why would you continue?

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Life is a beach - 23 Nov, 2023 - 10:27PM

LadyDee,
Thank you. I am so glad you have now got a great lover. It sounds like you had a lucky escape from the first person! He didn't deserve you.
Dotty Green,
I completely agree with you, if it is a one way street, it is good that you took the difficult decision to let go in the end. It is the best decision you took, there is no point in being with someone who makes you unhappy overall. I did have one previous relationship out of IE that I wish I had ended a long time before it ended, but I learnt I hope!
All,
It is so difficult, we need to keep reminding ourselves that we are here to be happier and not let anyone make us feel more unhappy than before we joined this site. We joined to meet someone who makes us happy and we can make happy.
It takes time but there is someone good out there.
I didn't think it would happen but I found a lovely person I am very happy with. There is hope out there for all.

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1614937 - 22 Nov, 2023 - 11:14PM

Brewdicca - 22 Nov, 2023 - 12:25PM

Women are the same - wizard-generated profiles (that often don't make sense), no (public) photographs and nothing on an "Ideal Partner". 5'2"-5'6" with a curvaceous body and "other" job! Choosing is hard and writing a personalised message is even harder! No wonder that some choose the blunderbus approach! But there's a diamond out there, somewhere...

Brewdicca - 22 Nov, 2023 - 12:25PM

It ‘a definitely a big reason- but sadly I have yet to meet anyone suitable on here!
Why do so many men have terrible photos or not even bother to personalise their profile or even say what they are looking for?!!

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1296520 - 16 Nov, 2023 - 10:06AM

Totally...having that special secret someone with whom you can be someone other than "dad/husband", is a wonderful feeling. The fact that they want you, desire you & crave you is an absolute turn on ! x

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LadyDe - 15 Nov, 2023 - 10:49PM

Lifeisabeach

I could have done with you a while ago. Been chatting for a a few weeks and was going to meet but a few hrs before he bailed … yes I felt sad put so much effort and emotion into the build up of meeting..after reading your post I have to realise that he’s the e one missing out and how i Value myself too I have a great grown up ie lover now where we can speak honestly and openly

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1529050 - 15 Nov, 2023 - 11:30AM

Life is a beach - 14 Nov, 2023 - 05:55PM

What a great post! I 100% agree if a lover is making you sad or upset or burdening you with their problems - I would def say move on.

My first affair from here - I had someone who was all about him and his issues his problems, and whilst we had some fun and great sex towards the end, I felt a very one way street. As it was my first affair from here (not my first affair) I feel it let it go on longer that it needed to. Now I know what I want and need from an affair and I am very up front with this so a prospective new affair knows what to expect and whether they want to embark on a journey or not, N

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Anna and her King - 14 Nov, 2023 - 07:18PM

Life is a beach - 14 Nov, 2023 - 05:55PM

100% agree that there should be a feel good factor in all of this. Afterall we are here for a supplement to our life, not to add to the worries and anxieties that we already have.

May happy thoughts continue for you and all of us! 🥰

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