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sumfun20 - 15 Jun, 2020 - 06:01PM

my advice having had some great times on here in the past is just be as honest as you can. Be aware that not everyone on here is who they would have you believe they are so just like In real life be careful. Lots of fun to be had if you can find your match.

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MatureWorcsBBW - 15 Jun, 2020 - 05:26PM

I don't expect to be given his real name.
I don't ever give my real name.

It is what it is, something with a time limit.
Something that isn't all consuming.
Something that gives both of you what you want otherwise you can simpler end it without huge repercussions.

Oh and enjoy it.
When's you find it.

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WaitingtobeFound - 15 Jun, 2020 - 05:17PM

Be prepared to be let down, but always behave impeccably yourself, don't lie and be yourself.

Also before you embark on an illicit adventure familiarise yourself with some of the dos and don'ts.

Do get a second phone, don't take risks in getting caught when you're texting and mailing, you need to protect each other from getting caught. Lots of advice online as how to not get caught.

Treat the other person as you would expect to be treated, and realise it will end one day, whether by death, being discovered or one of you ending it. My ie and I have done the deep stuff and I have arrangements in place for him to be informed if I should pass away or become ill

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1248010 - 15 Jun, 2020 - 04:40PM

Just don’t lie. I met someone here who lied even about his name and where he lived. And even more painful was the fact that we had already started to build something albeit virtual. Do Not Lie. If the person you have your eyes on doesn’t like the truth, then move on.
It’s bad enough that we have to lie to our partners- then when you lie to your IE(the reason why you’re lying to your partner!) then that’s a new low. Tell it as it is.

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phillyd - 15 Jun, 2020 - 04:33PM

Just be yourself, and be honest on your profile. Be ready for 'your not my type' and other messages to pictures. Don't have any risque photos either.

Oh, and read their profile, that way you can make a comment in an opening message.

Male2810 - 15 Jun, 2020 - 04:17PM

Be yourself and done be afraid to say what you’re looking for from the get go. Best to be open and honest to get results

maturenortherner - 15 Jun, 2020 - 04:16PM

Expect nothing and you won't be disappointed!!!

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1392134 - 15 Jun, 2020 - 04:16PM

I'm also new, day 2. What I have found is you have to make sure you pay attention to people's profiles, in terms of what they are after, their personality. It can be tricky!

I look younger than I am, so that's caused a few issues so far. But I think you have to just be patient and stay positive if you can

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Suzanna Foxwell - 15 Jun, 2020 - 04:16PM

Be honest about your age and your weight.

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Chelseaguy12 - 15 Jun, 2020 - 03:51PM

Be yourself, dont lie and dont tailor a response to meet what you think someone might like to hear.

Might take a while to find the right someone, but when you do, they'll like you for who you actually are and what you actually want

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