Comments (61)

justlooking111 - 24 Jan, 2025 - 11:53PM

You can play a tune on the black keys and you can play a tune on the whiote keys,
but for harmony, you need a little bit of both,
in relationships ececticism works,
and collaboration means 1+1=3 each
good luck

Cashany21 - 22 Jan, 2025 - 10:47PM

As a man on here you don’t want to come across as being pushy even though you’re looking for someone who will bring some excitement back into your life, so chat up lines to me are always a problem…… thoughts?

Mackjack - 22 Jan, 2025 - 03:15PM

I’m pretty new and would like to explore more. Also would like to know how effective this site is. Thanks

Sweetsoul25 - 22 Jan, 2025 - 12:41PM

Hi, I'm new here. I'm Daisy by name.

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marklondonengland - 22 Jan, 2025 - 12:20PM

Here we go... The last time chat-up lines worked was everyone was watching Cannon & Ball as Saturday night entertainment. If you have not bothered reading a profile and then crafting an introduction that matches the interest of the person you are messaging then it's game over before you even start...

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ClassyLady77 - 22 Jan, 2025 - 09:23AM

Here we go, I agree with your comment.

Although same rules apply online as you would have in Person.. would you go up to a random women and ask her what her favourite position is etc? If the answers no(which is should be or your mad) then don’t do it online…

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Here we go 693 - 22 Jan, 2025 - 08:16AM

I have to say I agree with what most have said here.
Chat up lines did go out with the dinosaurs. This is a site for people looking to have an affair, not a Saturday night down the pub/club. Speak to the person you're interested in as you would anyone else. If they like what they read and they reply, great. Sometimes you go nowhere, it's the nature of the beast.

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1711872 - 01 Nov, 2024 - 07:16PM

Be differnt

Tell the lady she deserves two boxes of chocolates, not one

She will be intriguied with this approach and ask why ?

Just respond "one box for each hip"

Girls love chocalates and cake and shoes

1704344 - 01 Nov, 2024 - 03:15PM

@Clickable Connections

Great points there. And also try to ask relevant questions to let your recipient know you’re interested in them and want to learn more about things they obviously think is important. If an initial message doesn’t have anything in there that can easily be replied to, then you may not get a reply.

Clickable Connection - 01 Nov, 2024 - 01:43PM

There really is no formula for these things , but a few common sense things

1. Read the profile
2. Within your message make it clear you have read her profile - without actually saying it. Eg maybe reference something she's mentioned, or a common interest etc
3. Don't copy and paste your profile
4. Make it about her, not you
5. Keep clear of any sexual chat , unless she's indicated it on her profile
6. Just be you

Also no matter how much effort you've put in , don't expect a reply - chances are , your message is going to be one of many - it is what it is.

Oh - and don't follow up with a needy "why haven't I received a reply".I'd imagine this is a huge turn off. Give the ladies some space lads

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