Comments (44)

Enigma.. - 02 Oct, 2024 - 08:54AM

@Richard5484

I agree your profile is good.
Well thought out and certainly makes a refreshing change from those awful auto generated, short, boastful etc..l male profiles.

But perhaps you could consider lowering your lower age limit to… say 60?
This may introduce you to some other female members 😉😊.

@FromRoss

You are wrong about females on this site being “bombarded” with messages… chance would be a fine thing lol 😆.
Chances are that any male member is not getting a response because…
A) He hasn’t read her profile properly and sent a message that has left her thinking 🤔. What is he talking about!!
B) He is out with reasonable travelling distance.
C) He is out with her age limits.
D) His profile did not appeal to her.
E) He sent a VK or a gift which give, I should imagine, most female members the “Ick”. Instant delete.

Here’s the biggy…
F) He’s sent the wrong message to the wrong female member who immediately cottons onto the fact that the message was n

Paula99 - 02 Oct, 2024 - 05:22AM

For those men in their early 50.s the mortality rate for sperm is reduced by 54% than a guy aged 30 - 40..factor in stress levels..work and general health …for most it would be an immaculate conception 😁😁😁

1708136 - 01 Oct, 2024 - 11:08PM

I know the feeling ☹️

Just because - 01 Oct, 2024 - 09:57PM

Just be normal
Send normal messages
Like you would talk to a lady normally
Xx

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Blessed3127 - 01 Oct, 2024 - 07:59PM

Please don’t ask me if it is ok that you have not had a vasectomy within 5 minutes of chatting which one charmer did !

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EmnEm123 - 01 Oct, 2024 - 02:25PM

Richard5484

I just had a look at your profile and thought it was good.

As From Ross said, this can be a long game, don't get disheartened.

Also, be aware that there really isn't that many members to choose from, so it's probably not anything specific that you're doing wrong.

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1704344 - 30 Sep, 2024 - 10:42PM

Richard5484

Don’t worry, don’t let it get to you. Women here get bombarded by lots of messages, so all they can do sometimes is not to reply to keep things sane for them.

Advice:be yourself. Try and use a subject line that will attract attention, don’t expect replies (just be pleasantly surprised when they do happen!). And have patience, this is a long game and you can spend quite some time finding someone suitable.

Good luck!

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Richard5484 - 30 Sep, 2024 - 09:55PM

I’m not having much luck with making contact with anyone perhaps it’s my profile can someone give me some advice Richard

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The_Perfect_Kiss - 30 Sep, 2024 - 08:56PM

Just be yourself

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1704344 - 30 Sep, 2024 - 05:30PM

I don’t think anyone falls for chat up lines any more. I’ll try and use some kind of hook in an introduction message and make each one tailored to the woman I’m writing to. Many ladies have really great profile names, so that’s a way into their personality as well.

I generally try and read the tone of the profile and respond in the same manner.

As always, pretty much nothing will guarantee a reply. Sometimes it’s a matter of saying the right thing at the right time.

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